Happy International Women’s Day!

When Lilian started at Daraja she was cautious and shy. But soon, Lilian learned she had a voice and should use it. She wasted no time standing up against one of the most dangerous cultural practices in Kenya: Female Circumcision. Otherwise known as Female Genital Mutilation (FGM). Lilian chose to challenge a tradition that is generations old in order to save the lives of girls. 

Lilian’s Story:

My name is Lilian Tirati. I am from Kajiado (Rift Valley). When I was growing up life was terrible in my village. We would often trek several miles just to get water for daily use. Because my primary school was near the water source, my sister and I used to carry jericans to school. Immediately after classes, we would go look for water.

I learned about Daraja from a stranger who came to work at Mt Suswa near my home. He encouraged girls in need to apply. At that time, I had finished 8th grade and was staying at home because I couldn’t afford a secondary education.

I was so excited to finally go back to school. Daraja made me the person I am today. W.I.S.H.—Daraja’s empowerment class—changed my life. Education is important, yes, but there is nothing as important as helping someone discover themselves. For this I am very grateful. 

While attending Daraja, I was asked to complete community service during each school holiday. By my second year, I was brave enough to start advocating against FGM in my village. I started with my group of 5 friends from primary school. Three of us had undergone FGM and 2 had escaped it. The first thing I did was share the Daraja WISH lessons with them. After we had gathered some support, we went to the chief of our village. We encouraged everyone to say no to FGM. 

Now I have started a community organization called the Lelero Dreams Initiative. We reach out to young girls in school, provide sanitary supplies, and mentor them. I am proud to see the first two girls I mentored now completing their secondary education. And I am looking forward to helping as many girls as possible find their voice and learn to make their own decisions. FGM is still common in my region, but more people are starting to reject it. 

Without Daraja, I wouldn’t have known who I am. I wouldn’t have done anything in my community like I am doing now. One of my mentors at Daraja once told me, “You are not too little to make a difference.” I believe these words are true for everyone. 

For all the women in my life—I wish you a Happy women’s Day. You are powerful beyond measure.